Volume 1
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INCOME AND MANAGEMENT.-I.
IN an age when, owing to the spread of education and the
consequent growth of intelligence and of competition, the affairs of human life
are becoming in every department more intricate and complicated, no apology can
be needed for an endeavour to set out in something like order the laws which
govern, and the rules which should regulate, that most necessary and most
important of all human institutions, THE HOUSEHOLD. It is there that the fruits
of man's labour are ultimately enjoyed ; there that woman finds her chief sphere
of duty; there that the coming generation is being trained for the duties of
life. It is there, then, if anywhere, that the secret of man's material
well-being should be sought and its principles carried into constant practice.
The lesson, above all others, which is required to be learnt
in the present day is the good old homely one that wealth is to be found not in
the possession of a large income, but in the possession of a surplus after
the income has been made to meet the necessary demands upon it. He who earns a
hundred a year and spends ninety, is really richer than he who earns two hundred
and spends two hundred and ten. And it not unfrequently happens that where the
resources of the household are judiciously husbanded, a relatively smaller
income is found to yield more solid results than a larger one. Domestic comfort,
in short, together with all the benign influences that flow therefrom, as
health, good spirits, equability of temper, clearness of head, prudence in
enterprise, happiness in the home circle, and the esteem of one's neighbours,
centres in the practice of a wise ECONOMY- in the thoughtful and
intelligent fitting of means to ends, so as to secure the most advantageous
results at the lowest possible cost.
MANAGEMENT is the one thing needful in the household. No
matter what the amount of income may be, everything depends upon the careful
laying out of the money. In one house the owner always seems to get full value
for his outlay; in another it is difficult to imagine where the money expended
goes, the apparent return is so inadequate. And this difference does not always
and of necessity spring from recklessness, or even from carelessness in
management; far more frequently it is owing to the want of an intelligent
appreciation of the way in which the available resources can be best turned to
account.
There are few housekeepers so rich that they are beyond the
necessity of studying Ways and Means of making the income cover the demands made
upon it. The housekeeper who would escape ruin must live within his income ; the
housekeeper who would prosper must live below it, and save out of it in some way
or other. These positions no one will assail. Whether the object aimed at be
escape from ruin, or prosperity, it is a very great advantage to know what one's
income is. Where the amount is a fixed one, it is comparatively easy to live
within it and positively dishonest to go beyond it. In the majority of cases,
those whose income is included under the general term "limited," do
know what they have to rely on. So far their course is clear. A certain. sum is
received weekly, monthly, or quarterly as the case may be; with it rent, taxes,
living expenses, including gas, coal, clothing, &c., have to be paid, the
children have to be educated, the pleasures and obligations of the family have
to be discharged. How can the money be most advantageously divided?
Domestic difficulties are half conquered when they are
honestly faced. It may be taken for granted that those who will calmly ask
themselves the question, "How shall I live and save out of my income?"
who will lay down a plan for expenditure and bravely adhere to its limitations,
have all but solved the problem set before them. The people who get wrong are
the people who drift into debt. They ascribe their misfortunes to the
hardness of the times, and similar standing causes of complaint, but as a matter
of fact they would be in a very different position if they realised fairly where
they were and what they had to do. The worst of it is that the majority of
people do not see the importance of the subject until they are deep in the mire.
They have not started fairly, and before they can get right they must recover
their ground. It is of little use to talk to them about dividing their income,
when the money is spent before it is received. "Once in debt, rarely out of
trouble," is proved by them as it has been proved by many thousands before
them. Their lives are consumed with misery and anxiety. They cannot adopt ways
and means, because the most economical methods are only possible to those who
have ready money. Housekeepers who live from hand to mouth are compelled to buy
in the dearest market. They purchase commodities in driblets, and so, to use an
old proverb, "they let money run out at the heels of their boots."
Their way of living is most unsatisfactory, for it consists in a constant effort
to use what is gone, and to redeem drafts drawn on the future.
Even this state of things can never be conquered if it is not
fairly faced. Let the housekeeper who has got into a [-2-] muddle of this kind put
his trouble before him and take action to overcome it, either by decreasing his
expenditure, or by working to increase his income. He may be sure of this, that
matters will grow worse instead of better if they are simply allowed to
"slide."
The question here, however, is not how to recover ground
already lost, but how to take and maintain the right position now, by planning
and adopting ways and means for living within one's income, and saving out of
it. And it is in order to assist in solving this problem that a few hints are
here given for the wise expenditure and division of incomes varying in amount
from £
100 to £
500 a year. Before proceeding to details, however, one word must
be said by way of explanation. Practical people often feel and express
impatience with those who lay down theoretical rules for the solution of the
problems of daily life. Is it not the fact, however, that they make a mistake as
to the idea of those who try to assist them? In the present instance, for
example, the writer has no expectation whatever that the plans laid down can
possibly be adapted to suit all circumstances. Indeed, it is regarded as more
than possible that in their entirety they will not meet the requirements of one
solitary housekeeper. Nevertheless, if they are taken broadly and interpreted in
a common-sense reasonable way they cannot fail to be a help. They have answered
well in the past, and they will in the future for those who, disregarding the
mere letter of the advice, will enter into its spirit will plan the detail for
themselves, and abide by the plan, make provision beforehand for each
item that can be calculated, and allow a liberal margin for the unforeseen.
One very valuable means of keeping down expenditure is to
keep a strict and regular account of money received and spent. There are people
who say, "Accounts are of no use. I am as careful as I can be, and I can do
no more." This may be true for those whose means are so far below their
necessities that they can follow no other plan than that of doing without what
they want, and enduring the misery of it. It is not probable, however, that any
one in this position would consult a book like this; therefore it may be taken
for granted that we have to deal with circumstances in which, at any rate, a
slight latitude is possible, and a choice can be made as to the form of outlay.
In cases of this kind there is no doubt that it is an advantage to keep
accounts, because it enables a housekeeper to keep a check upon himself; so that
if there has been excess he can lay his hand upon the item which produces it.
For his own guidance and satisfaction, if for nothing else, he should keep an
account of every farthing received and spent.
The account of income should, of course, be kept by the bead
of the household. Under this would be entered a weekly sum for housekeeping, a
separate account of which would be kept by the mistress or house-keeper. A
separate account also should be kept of the purchases made of each tradesman
under their heading; as, Grocer, Butcher, &c. These also should be added up
and compared with each other weekly, in order to prevent excess.
Many housekeepers profess to keep accounts, and do so after a
fashion; but their trouble is thrown away because they are not strict enough
with themselves. They put down large sums and necessary expenses, but place
unnecessary expenses and trifling sums under the convenient heading
"Sundries." She who would reap the benefit of keeping an account must
abolish sundries. Let every outlay be put down in detail. If it has been
imprudent, let the record be seen, and stand out in uncomfortable prominence
when the balance of account is drawn up ; thus only will the spender realise how
imprudent she has been. It is the same with trifles. "Trifles" make up
the sum of human life. They very frequently make up also the sum of expense
which causes outlay to exceed income. "Take care of the pennies and the
pounds will take care of themselves," is a homely proverb known to all, but
realised by few. Small extravagances lead imperceptibly to pecuniary
difficulties. It is the "tis buts" in expense which, piled one
upon another, make up the hill difficulty which we. must climb over, before we
can enter the pleasant land of freedom from pecuniary anxiety.
In laying down a plan for the wise expenditure of income, it
will generally be found that for people who live in towns, where rents and rates
are high, where the father has to travel backwards and forwards to business, but
where clothing and education are cheap, the following proportions may be taken,
and maintained roughly, though not strictly. For rent, rates, taxes, the cost of
locomotion for the father, and incidental expenses. such, as. amusements,
travelling expenses, removal of furniture, &c., three-sixteenths of income.
For housekeeping expenses, including provisions, coals, gas, servants' wages,
laundry, and wear-and-tear, one-half of income. For clothing, one-eighth of
income. For insurance, doctor's bill, and saving, one-eighth of income. For
education, one- sixteenth of income. In country places, on the contrary, where
rates and taxes are low, and distances are trifling, but where education and
clothing are expensive, one tenth may be given to rent, and the surplus thus
obtained may be divided between education and clothing.
Perhaps it may be thought that the cost of locomotion ought
not properly to be put with rent. Really, however, it is quite right that it
should be so, for the question of distance from town and the sum which the
father or bread-winner will have to pay for travelling to and from business
affects the rent of a house, as the sum which children will have to pay in going
to and from school is a part of education. In the suburbs of London houses may
be taken at an astonishingly low rent compared with the sum demanded for
dwellings nearer town but those who live in them generally find that, though
they may gain advantages in other ways, so far as expense is concerned the
ultimate outlay is not less for them than for their acquaintances who live
nearer the City.
It is also well to place the cost of locomotion with rent and
education, because by so doing a lump sum is set aside for the purchase of
season tickets. The facilities for procuring these tickets are now so great, and
the advantages offered by the railway companies are so obvious, that few people
with any sense of prudence think of paying a high fare daily instead of a low
fare paid quarterly or yearly. When a short railway journey has to be taken
regularly once or twice a day, it is most desirable that money should not be
frittered away in small sums upon it, and there will be little danger of this if
the season tickets have to be renewed, as a part of the house rent and the
school accounts.
There is a means of saving the cost
even of a season ticket, however, which it would be as well for business
gentlemen and for young people to practise more than they do; and that is by
forming a habit of walking to and from office, warehouse, or school. One
of the evils of the present way of living is, that men and young people of both
sexes exercise their brains too much and their bodies not enough. A daily walk
of four or five miles for gentlemen, and of a mile or a mile and a half for
young people, would make them healthier and stronger in nerve and physique. By
rising half an hour or an hour earlier every morning, the necessary time would
easily be obtained, and in six months or less the benefit gained would be so
obvious that it is not likely the pedestrians would discontinue their daily
walk.
There is still another consideration connected with house
rent which should not be overlooked ; and that is, the importance of obtaining a
house properly drained and [-3-] free from damp. A house imperfectly drained would
be dear if let for nothing a year. It is much to be regretted that comparatively
few houses are what they should be in this respect, yet an additional five or
ten pounds would be expended wisely out of a very small income, if by the outlay
healthy conditions could be secured which could not otherwise be obtained. Money
saved in this direction - would be lost many times over, and it might cause the
loss of more than money, namely, life or much-needed energy and strength.
Defective drainage has carried off many a lovely and beloved child. If it does
nothing more, it lowers the vital power and decreases the energy of grown-up
people.
The size of the family is the chief point to be thought of in
choosing a house. Perhaps it may be said that where there is a small family
ordinary expenses would be so much smaller that a better style of house could be
afforded. This is true, but, on the other hand, the more people there are the
more rooms will be required. With both large and small families, therefore, it
will generally be found that the same proportion of rent may be allowed, the
advantages secured being in the one case style and appearance, in the other size
and convenience.
In order to gain a fairly definite idea of the latitude which
may be permitted for various items of expenditure, it will be well to take a
series of different incomes and portion them out according to the plan laid
down. We will suppose that the family consists of the father, mother, and three
children, and commence with incomes of £
500, and £
400, and £
300 a year. These
may be divided as follows:-
Expenditure of an Income of £ 500 a year.
| Rent, rates, taxes, and cost of locomotion | £ 72 | 10 | 0 |
| Housekeeping | 250 | 0 | 0 |
| Clothing | 62 | 10 | 0 |
| Education | 32 | 10 | 0 |
| Insurance, medical attendance, and savings | 62 | 10 | 0 |
| Incidental expenses | 20 | 0 | 0 |
| [-Total-] | £ 500 | 0 | 0 |
| £ 500 | 0 | 0 |
Expenditure of an Income of £ 400 a year.
| Rent, rates, taxes, and cost of locomotion | £ 60 | 0 | 0 |
| Housekeeping | 200 | 0 | 0 |
| Clothing | 50 | 0 | 0 |
| Education | 25 | 0 | 0 |
| Insurance, medical attendance, and savings | 40 | 0 | 0 |
| Incidental expenses | 25 | 0 | 0 |
| [-Total-] | £ 400 | 0 | 0 |
Expenditure of an Income of £ 300 a year.
| Rent, &c. | £ 40 | 0 | 0 |
| Housekeeping | 150 | 0 | 0 |
| Clothing | 35 | 0 | 0 |
| Education | 20 | 0 | 0 |
| Insurance | 35 | 0 | 0 |
| Incidental expenses | 20 | 0 | 0 |
| [-Total-] | £ 300 | 0 | 0 |
Now to
take these sums in detail:-
Rent, Rates, Taxes, and Cost of Locomotion for the Father or
Bread-winner.
Rents and rates vary very considerably in different localities. In large towns they are
usually high. In London it maybe calculated roughly that rates and taxes,
including House Tax, Assessed Taxes, Water Rates, and season ticket, will mount
up to one-third of the rent, It is probable that, in respect of rent and rates,
London is about the dearest place to live in that there is. Therefore, seeing
that there will be the greatest difficulty where the prices are highest, it will
be best to take London rents and rates as specimens. It must be remembered,
however, that there are compensations connected with the matter, and in many
other points London and large towns are cheaper than country-places. No one
will object to the surplus which will remain if too high an estimate has been
taken.
It maybe objected to this item that people in possession of
£
500 or £
400 a year would be justified in living in houses worth more than £
50
or £
40 a year rent. This might be true with families where there are
no children to educate, and where there was no attempt made to save money.
Hundreds of families with this income live in better houses and let prudence go.
But in this we think are wrong. It is true the style of a house determines to a
great extent the estimate which will be formed of the respectability, class,
credit, or means of the occupier. A great curse of our modern civilisation,
however, is the constant competition which is carried on as to appearances.
People will do with inferior food and dispense with comfort, in order to appear
better off than they really are. Society would be a different thing if each man
would adapt his mode of life to the actual state of his purse, rather than to
his neighbour's supposed opinion about it. In numberless homes a saving might be
effected if people would but rid themselves of the fancied necessity for
maintaining false appearances.
There is a way of paying rent and of saving at the same time
which is frequently adopted by the prudent and thrifty; and that is to join a
building society, and buy the house one lives in. Well-managed building
societies are a great boon to economical people. They have been the means of
inducing numbers of people to save who never would have done so without them.
Many a man who is now comfortably off, who has a nice little sum safely
invested, and who enjoys all the advantages belonging to that condition of
things, owes his position to the fact that he was once induced to join a
building society. By the arrangement thus made he paid his rent monthly instead
of quarterly, soon gained the pleasant consciousness of having saved a little
money, and after a time found that the house he lived in was his own. The rent
had to be paid no longer, but the habit of saving thus formed was continued as a
matter of course, and a competency was the result. Viewed simply in the light of
an "investment" of money, building societies are not to be specially
recommended. Usually the money is not obtained at a particularly cheap rate, and
when it is put away it does not command a very high interest. But looked at as
inducements to people to save small sums, who never would or could save in any
other way, these societies are invaluable. The very fact that the payment of a
fine is exacted if the money is not duly paid, helps to keep up regular
payments. The money saved is looked upon as part of the ordinary expenditure of
the family, and in time its loss is not felt; until the day comes when the
man's house is in every sense his castle, for it is his own.
After rent the next item to be considered is the
housekeeping. It was said that under this head were to be included provisions,
coal, gas, servants' wages, laundry, and wear-and-tear. It follows, therefore,
that before anything can be taken for provisions, these deductions must be made
from the £
250 allowed in the case of the income of £
500 per annum. We
will consider this in the next article.
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INCOME AND MANAGEMENT.-II.
FROM the housekeeping, taken at £ 250, for an income of £ 500 a year, the following deductions may be taken as a pretty fair allowance
| Servants' wages. £ 14 per annum, or £ 1 3s. 4d. per month, for a general servant; and £ 12 per annum, or £ 1 per month, for nurse or housemaid | £ 26 | 0 | 0 |
| Gas | 8 | 0 | 0 |
| Coals and Coke | 12 | 0 | 0 |
| £ 26 | 0 | 0 |
Leaving
a balance of £
204 for housekeeping.
Before disposing of this £
204, however, there is still
another point to be considered, and that is the summer holiday. In these modern
days a yearly visit to the seaside or to the country is regarded as one of the
necessities of life. Men and women draw upon their strength until it is almost
exhausted, and then trust to a periodical enjoyment of fresh air, rest, and
change to reinvigorate them and furnish them with health and energy for another
year's work. But how is it to be paid for? The answer is evident to all; it must
be taken from the half of the income apportioned to housekeeping.
By this arrangement the amount set aside for housekeeping could be continued
through the year; that is, the expenses would be supposed to be the same as
usual wherever the family might happen to be. Therefore it would be necessary
only to deduct from the £
204 as much as would pay for travelling expenses and
lodgings. For these £
20 might well be deemed sufficient. The amount should
either be put aside in a lump sum if the income be received yearly or quarterly,
or it should be taken from the weekly income and put every week in the Post-Office Savings Bank, there to remain until the occasion for which it is needed
shall arrive.
We find, therefore, that after deducting this additional £
20 from the £
204
we have a balance of £
184, or an average sum of £
3 l0s. per week, for
housekeeping There is a small surplus, but this may be left for security, as it
is not well to draw the line too closely.
From
the sum of £
200 allotted from the income of £
400 a year, there would have to
be deducted-
| Servants' wages. £ 14 per annum for a general servant; and £ 10 per annum for nurse | £ 24 | 0 | 0 |
| Gas | 6 | 0 | 0 |
| Coal and Coke | 12 | 0 | 0 |
| Yearly Holiday | 20 | 0 | 0 |
| £ 62 | 0 | 0 |
Leaving a balance of £
138, or £
2 13s. per week, for housekeeping.
From
the sum of £
150 taken from the income of £
300 a year, there must be deducted-
| General servant's wages £ 12 a year | £ 12 | 0 | 0 |
| Gas | 5 | 0 | 0 |
| Coal | 10 | 0 | 0 |
| Yearly Holiday | 15 | 0 | 0 |
| £ 42 | 0 | 0 |
Leaving a balance of £
123, or a weekly sum of £
2, for housekeeping.
The first subject coming under consideration in these calculations is that of
servants' wages. It will be seen that in the two earlier instances arrangements
are made for keeping two servants - a general servant, who, if there were
no children in the family, would doubtless be transformed into a cook; and a nurse, who in similar
circumstances would be transformed into a housemaid. It is quite possible at the
present time to engage tolerably clever respectable servants for the wages here
named, who would do the work of the house and take charge of the children under
the supervision of the mistress.
A good many mistresses make an agreement that their servants
shall have so much wages and so much beer-money, that is, money either to buy
beer or to compensate them for doing without beer. This arrangement, from
whatever point of view it is looked at, is an unfortunate one for the mistress.
If a girl takes beer, she is led by this plan to procure it in the most
expensive and undesirable way possible; that is, in small quantities at a
public-house. A connection is thus established between the public-house and the
dwelling, and the way is opened for gossip and communications which would be
much better avoided. If a girl does not take beer, the mistress by making this
agreement simply arranges to pay her twice over for doing without it. Beer
supplies a certain want, and the girl who does not take it needs more food in
consequence, and this extra quantity the mistress has to supply, while paying
for the beer as well. If beer is kept in the house and the servant is paid to do
without it, there is a temptation placed in her way to be dishonest. Altogether,
the idea is a mistake. If beer is not taken by the family, let the servant
understand that it is not provided; if beer is taken by the family, and the girl
wishes to have it, let her be allowed to take a reasonable quantity.
The course here recommended is considered quite apart from
the question of the desirability or otherwise of total abstinence. This is not
the place to discuss that subject. We are only protesting against the
advisability of making special provision for stimulant, seeing that such an
arrangement is a decided loss for the mistress, and also that it tends to keep
up the idea in the minds of domestic servants that beer is the one item which
they have a right to demand, and which they must be compensated for if they do
without. Mistresses frequently make this arrangement because they think it
prevents too much beer being taken. If a girl is told that she can have a glass
of beer for dinner and a glass for supper, she will not exceed that amount if
she be honest and sober. If she be not honest and sober, she will get what she
wants in some other way, and she will be no good to any one. So far from its
being the case that excess is prevented by purchasing beer in small quantities
at a public-house, the real fact is that common beer sold by the lower class of
publicans is adulterated with salt and other ingredients which tend to promote
thirst, and so lead to drunkenness; while good wholesome malt liquor, such as is
sold in the barrel by respectable brewers, is the least objectionable form in
which stimulant can be provided for people who work hard.
Another unfortunate arrangement which is tacitly taken for
granted, rather than made between mistresses and servants, is that servants
should be allowed to sell various articles, such as kitchen grease, bones, rags,
and bottles. It is probable that this custom has caused more waste and led to
the demoralisation of more servants than any other which could be named. It
follows from it that the more a servant can waste the better off she is. The
greater part of the kitchen dripping furnishes the best fat which can be
procured for frying purposes, and the remainder might very easily be made into
soft soap for daily use. By putting a stop to the sale of kitchen grease alone,
the purchase of pounds of lard for frying might be saved, and much cost of soap
also. Mistresses are beginning to see what this custom of allowing servants to
sell household refuse involves. Nevertheless the practice is so very unfortunate
that a word or two must be said against it here. Not only does it [-39-]
lead to waste, and cause unnecessary expense, but it leads to fraud, because
the servant is tempted to sell more than she ought to do, and it either brings
a girl into communication with objectionable people outside, or it brings
objectionable people about the house. There is no occasion for this. If a girl
is plainly told by the mistress before she enters the house that the practice is
not allowed, she will not feel the matter a hardship. Indeed, it would be better
for a mistress to pay a higher wage and to discountenance the custom, than to
permit it and pay a lower one.
Perhaps it may be asked, What is to be done with all the refuse of the house
? Let the mistress sell it, not to the low dealers who go about the streets, but
to respectable dealers who will give a fair. price for it in an open
straightforward manner. Everything in a house should be made the most of, even
old papers and rags. Let there be a bag for white rags, and a place for bottles,
and a bag for torn-up letters and papers. When these are full let them be sold
and taken from the house, but let the business be done by the mistress, not by
the servant.
Housekeepers in possession of an income of £
300 a year cannot be advised to
keep two servants. A general servant receiving £
12 wages will probably be as
much as they can afford.
The cost of gas is a great expense in many a house. A bright light is a
luxury, and is appreciated by every one, but it cannot be enjoyed without being
paid for. Waste of gas makes the gas-bills mount up, and the careful housekeeper
may effect a considerable saving by preventing this. The gas-meter should be
turned off during the day, so that if there are any places where the pipes are
defective, escape of gas may be prevented. Flaring-burners also should be well
looked after, for with gas a flare is always the sign of waste, for it shows
that more gas is given out than can be consumed by the flame. The condition of
the burners has almost as much to do with the amount of a gas-bill as the cost
of gas per thousand feet. Old worn-out burners are the best friends - which the
gas companies have. A smell of gas should never be disregarded. It is a sign
that there is an escape somewhere, and steps should be immediately taken to
discover where it is and to put a stop to it. Wet gas-meters also, when fixed
in a house, need to be strictly looked to, or they will do their part to swell
the amount of the gas-bill, and so add to the trials of the householder. If
these meters are over-filled with water up to a certain point the supply of gas
will cease, but if over-filled rather below this point, the gas will come into
the pipe. but the revolutions of the apparatus will be accelerated - and the
consumer will appear to have consumed more gas than he has had the benefit of.
Last, but not least gas when not in use should be turned out or left very low. A
careless person who leaves the gas "full on," in an unused room, is throwing
money away as much as if he cast it into the street.
Watchfulness and care can do
wonders in regulating the consumption of coal
in the household. The open ranges which have been so long used in England appear
to have been constructed for the purpose of burning a large quantity of coal,
but fortunately these are gradually falling into disuse. Improved grates of
various kinds are now sold, and with many of these considerable economy in coal
can be effected. These improvements follow so closely one upon the heels of
another, that it is scarcely possible to recommend any particular variety, for
fear it should already be out of date. Even where the old-fashioned ranges have
to be put up with, a great deal may be done to economise fuel by filling up the
large open space behind the bars with fire-clay. Fire-bricks are also sold which fit the range, and fire-balls to
fill up the
empty spaces and help to throw the heat out into the room instead of letting the
most of it go up the chimney. Close ranges are more and more frequently placed in
kitchens, and if judiciously used may be the means of effecting a great economy
in coal; although if carelessly used they will tend to increase its consumption.
There is usually such a good draught in close stoves and kitcheners that almost
anything may be burnt in them- refuse potato parings, cinders, coal-dust,
&c. &c. The attention of the housekeeper should therefore be directed
towards procuring for these stoves inexpensive fuel-hard, slow-burning
"nuts," with a mixture of coke and well- damped coal-dust. What is called
best coal makes a bright cheerful fire, and is well suited for use in the
drawing-room or dining-room, but it is worse than thrown away if burnt in the
kitchener or close stove, for not only is it quickly consumed, but it gives out
such a fierce heat that it soon destroys the bars of the stove itself. Fresh
coal may be burnt in the kitchen while cooking is going on, but when cooking is
done nothing should be thrown on the fire but refuse, well damped coal-dust, and
cinders. Careful housekeepers must, of course, be particular about having their
cinders well sifted and used. Thoughtless servants are very apt to omit this
necessary business if not well looked after. It should be remembered also that
coal will burn much longer if not "poked" overmuch. Some people appear to be
possessed by a constant desire to poke the fire, and a more extravagant habit
can scarcely be acquired. Coal will burn more slowly if "knobbly" pieces are
laid flat on their sides instead of on end. The coals will blaze more quickly if
placed upright, hut a blazing fire is an extravagant fire. A clear bright fire
gives out more heat and burns more slowly, therefore it is the more economical
of the two.
When there is accommodation for storing coal, a supply for
winter use should, of course, be got in at the end of autumn while coal is still
cheap. Every one knows that in very cold weather coal rises in price, and
therefore its purchase at this season is not desirable.
[-78-]
INCOME AND MANAGEMENT.-III
WE now come to the subject of housekeeping. Here we find that the possessor
of an income of £
500 a year may devote £
3 10s. to housekeeping ; the possessor
of an income of £
400 may take £
2 13s., whilst he who has £
300 a year must not
give more than an average sum of £
2 per week to this purpose.
The chief difficulties which housekeepers have to contend with are laundry
work and butchers' bills. With regard to the first of these the question has to
be answered, is it better to put linen out to wash or to wash it at home?
Experience replies that it is more economical to wash it at home ; very much
pleasanter to send it out. The economy of washing at home is found not so much
in the immediate saving of laundry bills (though that is considerable) but in
the fact that clothes washed at home wear very much longer than those which are
put out to wash. Laundresses as a class decry the use of lime and deleterious
powders which save labour but destroy fabric; individual laundresses appear
invariably to make use of them, and it is a very unusual thing to meet with one
who does not use "just a little." The consequence is that linen washed
carefully at home lasts three times as long as that which is put out to wash.
At the same time every one knows how disagreeable it is to have washing
about. Modern improvements and machinery, washing machines, wringing machines,
drying machines, &c. &c., lessen the unpleasantness connected with it,
but they do not abolish it altogether. Of course a good deal depends upon the
construction of the house and the appliances at command. Where the wash-house is
built apart from the house, for example, and where there is space for drying out
of the sight of the family, the business may be got through without a general
sense of discomfort being experienced, but when the clothes have to be washed in
a kitchen not very far away from the living-rooms occupied by the family, there
is no hiding matters. Doors may be closed, copper-lids kept down, but the secret
escapes. The pervading sense of warm flat irons described by Mr. Weller
as being typical of the "kilybeate taste of mineral water," is typical also
of soapy water ; facts proclaim themselves, do what we will to keep them quiet,
and every one in the house has a consciousness that the laundress is at the
centre of the situation.
In the South of England, where coals are dear and the kitchens of
moderate-sized houses are not fitted up with conveniences for the work,. also
where hired labour is expensive, it is very questionable indeed whether, in
cases where the servants of the house cannot do the work alone, it is worth
while to wash at home. Many clever housekeepers are decidedly of opinion that
it is not ; others hold as strongly that it is most extravagant to put the work
out. It is probable therefore that the decision arrived at will be determined by
the. opinion held by the mistress on this point. But there can be no doubt that
where the work can be so arranged that the servants of the house can do it
without assistance, it is a help to wash at home, and people who wish to live
economically will find that a more decided saving can be effected in this
direction than in any other.
In the case of a family such as we are now considering, where two
servants
are kept and where there are but [-79-] three children, it would be by no means unreasonable to require the maids to
wash at any rate all small things - pocket-handkerchiefs, pillow-cases, flannels, stockings, towels, dusters, the
children's clothes and their own without extra help. The sheets, tablecloths,
shirts and larger articles of underlinen, with the servants cotton dresses,
might then be sent out. It is important that servants' dresses should be well
got up, because the character of the house is affected more by the appearance of
the servants than it is by that of the mistress A - mistress may be untidy and
the fact will be put down to eccentricity or carelessness, or unforeseen
circumstances but if the servants are habitually slipshod and dirty, observers
conclude that the family is of low origin.
Where two servants are kept it is usual for each one to undertake the washing
of a certain portion of the linen. Thus the cook will wash her own clothes the
pillow-cases, the bed-room towels, and the kitchen towels and dusters. The nurse
will wash small articles belonging to the children with her own linen. When a
little washing is thus done by both servants, it is a mistake to arrange that
they shall do it together. Girl nature is the same all the world over, and it is
quite to be expected that two girls who were set to perform in company a task in
which they were removed from the rest of the family would find that there was so
much to talk about that little work could be done. Mistresses frequently
arrange, by way of helping on washing day, to do themselves a little of the work
of the house making the beds for example, and dusting the rooms thus leaving
the servants to £
get on with the wash The plan rarely answers. It would be
better, and upset the house less, if one girl did her part one day and the other girl another day ; working together they will be more
likely to hinder
than to help one another.
It is. a good plan to let the maids do the washing in turns every Monday.
Thus one Monday the cook would wash the towels, dusters, pillow-cases, her own
linen, and the children's linen. The next Monday the nurse would wash her linen,
with the towels, dusters, pillow-cases, and children's clothes. Thus the linen of
each maid would be done every fortnight, but the children's clothes and small
things belonging to the family every week. Where there are young children it is
frequently necessary to have clothes washed frequently Besides this, washing is
not agreeable work, and it is not fair to give it all to one servant and let the
other escape. The maids might do their own ironing in the evening, after the
work of the day was over. The nurse would invariably iron the children's
clothes, and the cook or general servant would take charge of the household
linen.
Perhaps, when the time came for the nurse to do her share of the washing, the
house-mother would go into the nursery and take charge of the children, thus
leaving the nurse at liberty from the children. But whatever arrangement is
made, or whatever work is to be done, the mistress will find that it is a
mistake to set two girls to do it together. Let each one know what her work is, and be responsible for it, and let her
do it alone. There is time for talking when work is over, meantime
opportunities for talk will interfere with work. Where one servant only is kept,
the mistress will perhaps arrange to do part of the lighter work on washing-day,
so that the maid need not leave her wash tub.
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INCOME AND MANAGEMENT.-IV.
THE appearance of a new baby in the family makes a great difference in the
quantity of linen which needs washing; indeed, the extra work and expense caused
by a baby is at first felt perhaps more in this department than in any other.
Where there is a young baby, a nurse must be a clever laundress or there is
nothing but trouble. During the infancy of the child she should do a little
washing and ironing every day, the washing being done in the morning while the
child is asleep, the ironing in the evening after it is settled for the night.
Napkins and underlinen that are soiled by a baby should never be left to lie
dirty; they should be washed thoroughly at once.
A clever nurse will soon lessen her labour in this direction,
If only she will take trouble to train the child properly from the beginning,
she may very soon discard napkins altogether, excepting in the night. Mothers,
when they are talking together, sometimes say, "What a difference there is
in children!" The children are very much alike in this respect; the
difference is in the mothers and nurses. A dirty child is seldom a naughty
child, it is a disgrace to the mother or nurse. If it is taught properly and
attended to constantly, it will form a good habit as well as a bad one. Let no
nurse therefore condole with herself that her work is specially trying. If she
is overburdened in this matter it is her own fault she should have taught the
child better.
Economy may very easily be effected in this way by washing
small things at home. Large things take a good deal of soap and a good deal of
drying, but small things, especially when charged for separately instead of by
the dozen, swell the bills in an incredible manner. A girl who can wash and get
up nicely a few small things will in the course of a year save many a shilling
to her mistress. For this reason it is a great advantage for young ladies to be
taught to starch and iron collars and laces and washing dresses. Clothing of
this kind, though fresh, pretty, and inexpensive in itself, is almost entirely
out of the reach of people who have to send every article to the laundress, but
is a great addition to the wardrobe of young ladies who can "get up things
for themselves."
Butchers' bills constitute a source of anxiety to
householders, and very great judgment is needed in order to provide dinners
which shall supply good nourishing food for the family and yet be economical. No
advantage can be gained by trying to dispense with good food. If children are to
grow up healthy and strong they must have good support, and the point needs
special attention, because the constitution of a growing child is being formed.
It does not follow, however, that this good food must consist exclusively of
butchers' meat. The high price charged nowadays for this one article of domestic
consumption is enough of itself to plunge numbers of families into difficulties.
It is in order that she may escape embarrassment of this kind that a mistress
should understand what to buy and when to buy it.
American meat has of late years been largely introduced in
England. Some of this is exceedingly good, and housekeepers who refuse from
prejudice to buy meat simply because 2d. per pound less than the expected price
is asked for it, may very likely be gratified by paying the higher price for
exactly the same kind of meat at a more pretentious shop. The only advice that
can be given in this case is that the mistress should learn what good meat is
like. This knowledge can only be attained by experience, although the points to
be looked at may be learnt from cookery-books. When once gained it may be
invaluable to its possessor. After this the house-mother may remember that milk,
beans, and peas, may be said to be as nourishing as meat, eggs almost as
nourishing. Vegetables purify the blood, and farinaceous foods are most valuable
auxiliaries to animal food. Milk is especially useful for young people; indeed,
until the ninth year, milk and farinaceous substances should form the principal
food of a child, who is certain to be well nourished if it has plenty of bread
and milk. When it is remembered how many cheap inexpensive dishes may be made of
milk and farinaceous substances at a small cost, the difficulty of providing
suitable food at a reasonable price will be considerably lessened. To use the
words of Dr. Edward Smith, "With plenty of bread and milk, there will
probably be health and strength and no doctor's bills." In buying butchers'
meat it should be remembered to let one day work in with another. A dinner
should never be arranged for one day only; consideration should be given to what
is likely to be left, and how the remains may be used to the best advantage.
Bones and scraps also should never be thrown away without having been stewed in
order to abstract every particle of nourishment from them, and the liquor thus
produced may be made into appetistng, nourishing soup.
Speaking roughly, and taking into account the high rate at
which butchers' meat is sold, it may be calculated that the mistress of a
household consisting of eight persons, four of whom were children, and enjoying
an income of £
500 a year, might consider herself justified in spending 3s. per
day, taking one day with another, in meat. With an income of £
400 a year she
might allow herself to spend 2s. 6d. per day, and if the income did not exceed
£
300 per annum, the outlay here should not go beyond 2s. per day.
The most profitable joint which can possibly be bought for
the use of a household is the top side of the round of beef. It is not a cheap
joint, but it can be used all through, and not a particle need be wasted. If the
meat is of good quality, is carefully cooked, and well basted, it is tender and
juicy. If carelessly cooked it will be dry and hard. Thick flank of beef and the
leg of mutton piece of beef are also profitable. The thin end of the flank and
the brisket and the aitchbone of beef cost less per pound, but they are dear
because there is so much waste with them, especially for children, who will not
eat fat and gristle. A sirloin of beef is an excellent joint, but it is
generally and rightly considered an expensive one. Yet it may be used so as to
turn it to very good account. Unless there is a family weakness for fat, it
should never be cooked with the flap on. Rather the flap should be cut straight
off, then salted and boiled, pressed and glazed, when it is excellent. Or a
little ox kidney and a few tinned oysters should be put with it, and it should
be made into a pie, when it will be delicious. The housekeeper, when purchasing
a sirloin of beef, will do well to think of this way of using the flap, and buy
a joint weighing a pound or two more for the purpose of trying it. She may thus
obtain a better cut, and will certainly reap an advantage. Sometimes the under
cut of a sirloin is taken out and cooked separately, like rump steak. Cold roast
sirloin is, however, so excellent, that it is questionable whether the plan is a
good one. When a sirloin of beef is no longer fit to be brought to table, there
is always a great deal of meat on it which can be used for rissoles, croquettes,
sausage rolls, Cornish pasties, Shepherd's pie, &c., &c., and there is
fat which can be rendered down for dripping. Hard sinewy parts of meat generally
cost little, and are very good if stewed long and gently. Of this nature are the
roll of the blade-bone of beef, the muscle of the leg of beef, and the scrag end
of a neck of mutton. Meat of this kind should be stewed gently for a long time,
five or six hours. It will then be found excellent, and will supply cheap and
good dinners at a trifling cost.
Whatever the amount spent over the food, however, it may be
taken for granted that it will not be made the most of unless the mistress
herself understands cookery. There is no accomplishment the possession of which
will [-98-] compensate her for ignorance of this
most useful art. Fortunately, cookery is more fashionable than it once was, and
ladies holding a good position are beginning to be ashamed of saying they cannot
cook simple dishes. Much still remains to be done, and no mistress of a
household such as is now being considered should rest content until she is
herself so clever in cookery that she is independent of servants in this
respect. No one need have any difficulty in obtaining knowledge of this kind.
Cookery schools are established in various parts, and cookery books are
published at prices which place them within the reach of all. In this
periodical, recipes of various kinds will he given which it is hoped will be of
use in the same direction. It must be remembered, however, that the most
elaborate and detailed instructions are of little use without practice, and this
is possible to all who have health and strength, and leisure to devote to the
purpose.
A knowledge of cookery is valuable because without it a
mistress cannot tell how to make the most of the materials at her disposal. For
example, it is generally taken for granted that large joints are not suitable
for small families. This is certainly the case where the mistress does not know
anything of cooking. If she does, however, she will find that she can frequently
buy meat to greater advantage by procuring a large joint than by expending the
sum it would cost in purchasing three or four small pieces. Of course the state
of the weather must be taken into consideration before a large joint is bought,
and care must be taken also to procure a joint that will cut up well and can be
divided satisfactorily. The sirloin of beef has already been mentioned, and we
may take note also of a leg of mutton, which is either a very expensive joint or
a moderately profitable one, according to the way it is treated. A thrifty
housekeeper will buy a good-sized leg, have a cutlet taken from the middle to be
broiled separately and served with tomatoes and greens. The knuckle end will
then be boiled and served with caper sauce, turnips, and carrots. If any of this
is left it will be curried and served with boiled rice. The liquor in which it
is boiled will be used for soup. The other end will be roasted, and served
either with Yorkshire pudding or suet pudding as an accompaniment ; if any of
this is left it can be hashed or minced, and served with poached eggs. The
knuckle will be stewed in the first instance to make gravy, any fat that there
may be will be rendered to make dripping, and the bones will be stewed for soup.
These are homely dishes enough, but by the time they are finished there will not
have been much wasted of the leg of mutton.
It is wise to purchase groceries weekly rather than as they
are wanted, partly because this will act as a check on the consumption, and also
because certain articles may be bought at a cheaper rate when taken in
quantities. Amongst these may be mentioned biscuits, extracts, essences, flour,
jams, marmalade, Swiss milk, pickles, &c. &c. Soap may generally be
obtained at a lower price if purchased by the hundredweight or half
hundredweight instead of by the bar, while dried fruits, starch, spiceries, and
candles may he procured at an advantage if a store is procured ; and if kept
covered in a cool dry place they will not deteriorate in value with keeping. It
cannot, however, be considered judicious to purchase very large supplies at one
time of such articles as rice, macaroni, semolina, vermicelli, and similar
ingredients, for these are best when fresh. Very little coffee, also, should be
procured at one time, because coffee is never so good as when freshly roasted.
It is very desirable that a liberal supply of fresh
vegetables should be provided for family use. These are best when fresh, and
therefore must be bought as they are wanted. Fresh fruit is so valuable from a
health point of view, that it cannot be entirely dispensed with, although some
may be disposed to look upon it as a luxury. Potatoes every one uses, and an
effort should be made to buy these by the sack rather than by the pound. The
latter is a very expensive method. In buying potatoes by the sack the
housekeeper should be on the lookout to ascertain whether the sack contains
three bushels or two bushels of potatoes. Strictly speaking a sack should
contain three bushels, but of late years, since competition has been so keen,
dealers have sold what they called sacks which weighed two bushels only. On this
account housekeepers have been led to imagine that they were buying potatoes at
a very low price, when really they were not getting the quantity they expected.
New bread is both extravagant and unnecessary, and ought
never to be used in a family. When bread has become very stale, the loaf may be
dipped in hot milk or water, then put into a quick oven till hot through. It
should then be eaten at once, and will taste like fresh bread ; if left for
awhile it will taste stale as before.
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INCOME AND MANAGEMENT.-V.
THE proportion of income spent on stimulants must be determined by the wishes
of the family. So far as expense only is concerned, it is a great economy to do
without them altogether. The difficulty connected with them is that when once
their purchase is permitted, one never knows where to stop. The allowance of beer
usually considered reasonable is a pint a day for a woman, a quart a day for a
man. When beer is dispensed with, an extra quantity of milk should be taken to
supply its place. It has already been said that milk is a very valuable article
of diet, especially for children. A healthy child is better for at least a quart
of good milk per day.
It is the custom in a great
many households to give the servants every Monday morning a certain amount of
sugar, tea, and butter for their private use, expecting them to make this last
to the end of the week. The quantities allowed are generally half a pound of
butter, one pound of sugar, from two to four ounces of tea for one servant, six
ounces for two servants, and four ounces of coffee for breakfast. Apart from
this, every article of food is locked up, and the ingredients needed for the
requirements of the family are given out every morning. Articles needed for
purposes of cleaning are given out every week, and a strict account is taken of
the quantity used. There can be no doubt that where servants cannot be relied
upon, this plan imposes a necessary check upon them, and prevents their wasting
food or giving it away. The worst of it is that when servants are honest and
worthy of trust, the plan prevents any demand being made upon them in this
direction. In our opinion the system - often a very necessary one - of locking
everything from the servants, and giving them what they require apart from the
provision made for the family, has done more to injure the relations between
mistresses and good servants than anything else. (The remarks now made apply
only to households where one or two servants are kept. In large establishments
conditions and methods are different.) It is more than probable that few will
agree with this opinion; nevertheless, we hold it strongly. When servants are
thus treated they feel that they need not look for any liberality from their
mistresses, that they will receive just what they can claim, and no more ; and
they very naturally exercise the same spirit in return, and get what they can.
So experience proves once more the truth of the saying, "With what measure
ye mete, it shall be measured to you again." Servants who are engaged all
day in physical work need more food than mistresses who are employed in
sedentary occupations. If they are honest girls - and surely no one would keep a
maid who was not believed to be honest - let them have freely what they require
for their personal needs, and let them understand clearly before they enter the
house that nothing is to be given away without permission.
An outcry has been raised of late years against domestic
servants, and one would think, to hear some persons talk, that the race of
trustworthy skilful servants had disappeared from the land. It is not so,
however. If each housekeeper will look round among her personal acquaintance she
will find that, in the majority of cases, those masters and mistresses who are
kindly and reasonable, yet firm; who know what they have a right to expect, and
who are willing to concede what is fair and right as well as to make claims on
their dependents, have, on the whole, good servants, and keep them. The masters
and mistresses who complain most loudly of the "greatest plagues of
life," who are continually changing their maids, and who are in a chronic
state of misery concerning them, are usually ignorant of what housework
involves, and, it may be added, are sometimes slightly unreasonable.
[-136-] It cannot be said that
so far women have been very successful in managing those placed under them. They
generally make one of two mistakes. Either they leave things altogether, and let
the housekeeping go on in a happy-go-lucky sort of way, or they superintend and
reprove a servant to such an extent that her life becomes a burden to her. They
need to strike a happy medium - to carefully lay down reasonable practicable
rules of work, and to be satisfied when these rules are fairly carried out. If a
girl knows what her work is, that it is possible to accomplish it, and that her
mistress understands the details of it sufficiently to appreciate it when
accomplished, she will be more likely to do it than if simply left to carry it
out or not, as she feels inclined; or, on the other hand, if followed and
worried whilst it is in process.
It is perhaps scarcely necessary to say that all goods must
be paid for when they are bought, they must on no account be purchased on
credit. The credit system is one that can scarcely be spoken against too
strongly, for it has led to pecuniary difficulties in many a home. Fortunately
it has been decried so vigorously, and the evils connected with it have been
exposed so ruthlessly, that it is very much less practised amongst middle-class
householders than it once was. A great many people, tradesmen especially, have a
strong objection to cooperative stores; but whatever the opinion held concerning
them may be, there is no doubt that they have benefited the community to this
extent, that they have struck a blow at the system of encouraging customers to
buy what they cannot afford, and enabling them to put off the day of payment, by
allowing unlimited credit to all who are in a fairly good position.
There are still other items to be taken from the sum set
aside for housekeeping, which can on no account be omitted, but which it is
impossible to state in exact terms, because they must necessarily vary with the
position, habits, and associations of the family. These are the sums required
for the private expenses of the master of the household, and for charitable
purposes. The amount which can be spent prudently in this way must as a matter
of course be determined by the head of the family, and also as a matter of
course they must be regarded as part of the living expenses, and therefore be
deducted from the half of the income devoted to them. Indeed it will be obvious
that alt extra expenses must be paid for out of this half. There are
certain items which so long as ordinary arrangements continue must be
provided. Amongst these are rent, taxes, wages, season tickets, and insurance.
These therefore must be paid first. After these, come the items which are
affected by economy and management, such as coal, gas, clothing, &c. If for
these a sum barely sufficient is allowed, it is evident that all additional
expense must be taken from housekeeping. Difficulties are also sure to arise
unless a margin is allowed for incidental expenses. When all these things are
taken into consideration, it will not be found that half the income is by any
means over-much to allow for housekeeping expenses.
The next item which comes under consideration in the
expenditure of the income is clothing. Here we find that when there is an income
of £
500 a year, £
62 10s. is set aside for this purpose ; where there is an
income of £
400 a year, an expenditure of £
50 per annum is permitted; and with
an income of £
300 a year, £
35 per annum is allowed. It would follow that in
the first instance the father and mother could each take £
24 per annum for
dress, while the children had £
14 10s. between them. In the second instance the
father and mother might have £
20 each, and the children £
10 amongst them. In
the third instance the father might take £
15 per annum, the mother £
12, and
the children £
8.
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IT is more than probable, seeing that so much is thought of dress and
appearance now-a-days, that housekeepers may come to the conclusion that too
small a proportion of the income has been here apportioned to dress. Surely, it
may be urged, a gentleman who is in receipt of £
500 a year may spend more
than £
24 over his own dress. There can be no doubt that dress is of importance.
Strong-minded individuals who disregard it usually have to pay a penalty, by
being treated with less respect and consideration by strangers than they would
be if their coats were less shiny at the seams, and their hats less worn at the
edge. Rich people can afford to disregard dress, poor ones must be respectably
attired or they will be looked down upon by their associates.
Yet, even while acknowledging this, it is believed that an
ample allowance has been here made for apparel. For there is always one point
worth remembering, namely, that amongst people of moderate income those appear
the best dressed who keep only a small stock of clothing on hand, and wear it
straight away, because what they have is made in the latest style. This is
especially the case with ladies' dress, because the fashion in ladies' dress
changes more quickly than with gentlemen's. A lady who has a stock of dresses
and bonnets, and is obliged to be careful with them and wear them as long as
possible, will soon look antiquated because her dresses will be out of date ;
but she who has just what she requires, and no more, may wear a dress till done
with, then buy another and have it stylishly made, and will look fashionably
dressed all the time. We may take it for granted that it is not the detail in
dress that is noticed, it is the tout ensemble; if the general appearance
is good, the minutiae are disregarded; and so far as the estimate of general
acquaintance is concerned, the mode is of more importance than the cost of
material.
If this fact is once acknowledged and realised, the necessity
of a large outlay will be at once done away with. Appearance is determined by
the dress people have in wear, not by that which is lying folded up in their
drawers, If what they have on fits well and is of recent date, no inquiry will
be made as to the supposed stock laid by. Therefore from an economical point of
view it is a mistake to purchase more than is absolutely wanted at the time. Let
provision be made for present need, and so far as the number of dresses is
concerned, let the future be arranged for at the moment.
An exception to this rule must, however, be made with regard
to gentlemen's trousers. It is very extravagant to wear a pair of trousers
straight away. Thus treated they are sure to look "baggy," especially
at the knees, in a very short time, and the tailor will probably be blamed for
an imperfect cut, when the fault lies really with the wearer. If trousers are to
last, they should never be worn more than two days at one time. When a second
pair is taken, the first pair should be brushed well and folded as a tailor
folds trousers, that is, shaken out by the middle seam at the back, then laid
away under pressure for two or three days. Some, gentlemen fold their trousers
thus, and lay them away under the mattress, and when wanted they come out
looking straight and fresh.
It does not follow from what we have said that the purchase
of flimsy common material is permissible. On the contrary, experience proves
that common materials are [-208-] always the
most expensive in the long run. Well-made fabric will stand wear-and-tear, and
can be made up in different forms with advantage, while "cheap stuffs"
soon look shabby. Injudicious purchase of common material is especially
improvident where children belong to the family. By the help of a little
forethought, good taste, and management, the house-mother who is careful always
to purchase good material, and who is herself a clever needle-woman, may dress
children prettily and even stylishly at a very trifling expense. To do this,
however, she must be willing and able to turn, re-turn, alter, remake, trim up,
and change about in the most astonishing manner. She must also endeavour to
divide the money at her disposal so that one year shall work in with another,
and a heavy purchase in one direction be balanced by a saving in the opposite
one. Thus, if an overcoat is wanted in the winter, the purchase of a holiday
suit must be deferred until the next year, and summer mantles must be dispensed
with if it is likely that waterproofs will be needed later.
There is one comfort connected with dressing children, and it
is that they do not need new apparel all at once. Clothing, especially
under-clothing, if well mended and laid aside before the child has outgrown
it, can be worn by three or four children. One good set of baby-linen ought
to serve four babies; that is, if new flannels are supplied when necessary.
Babies' shirts, night-gowns, day-gowns, and robes, if made of good material and
washed at home, will often serve for half a dozen babies. Therefore, while
children are of tender years, expense is incurred chiefly with the elder ones,
and even they may have a large portion of their clothing made of materials
already partly worn by their parents. But it is a great mistake to alter a first
baby's under-clothing to suit his increased size. As he grows, fresh clothes of
good quality should be made to fit him, and those he leaves off will be ready
for the brothers and sisters who succeed him. As the years roll on and the
family increases, the mother will reap the advantage of having bought and made
good clothing when she had time and money at command, seeing that the time may
come when both time and money will be scarce.
The same may be said of under-clothing for the adult members
of a family. Let every article needed be purchased of good material, be well
made and neatly finished off, and it will wear three times as long as if made up
in a slipshod style and of common material. The only way to keep a well-stocked
wardrobe is to procure things good of their kind as wanted. Articles of clothing
need not be elaborately trimmed, with embroidery and frillings. Such elaboration
entails anxiety and constant expense in the washing and getting up of the linen;
but they may be plainly trimmed, and neatly finished on the wrong side as well
as on the right side, be kept in good repair, and they will amply repay the
worker, and be a satisfaction and credit to their owner as long as they hang
together. No habit is so easily acquired as that of putting up with inferior
under-clothing. It is much easier to keep things in good condition than to bring
them back after they have once fallen low. Expense can never be urged in
justification of the purchase of ill-made under-clothing, for articles of this
kind prove most costly in the end. There will be room for the exercise of both
strength of mind and the determination of will, if the amount necessary for
insurance and saving is to be put aside out of incomes which have already too
many demands upon them. It is easy to let these items go, and the additional
money supplied by the omission of these payments is usually most welcome, so
that there is every temptation for a householder to turn a deaf ear to the
demands of prudence and forethought - to live in the present, and to leave
providing for to-morrow till to-morrow comes. But no man who truly loved his
wife and children would wish to leave them exposed to the danger of having to
struggle with poverty and want at the very time when their hearts were crushed
by bereavement ; and no man who respected himself would be content to live
comfort ably to-day with a prospect of being dependent upon others in old age
and sickness.
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AFTER all is said and done, the amounts put down in these calculations to be paid for insurance and savings are very trifling ; but if they can be continued they will make a very appreciable difference in the course of a few years. It is maintained that any one enjoying an income of £ 500 a year should assure his life for £ 1,000, should effect a fire insurance for £ 400, and an accidental insurance for £ 1,000 in case of death by accident, or of £ 6 per week in case of disablement by accident. Further, any one with an income of £ 400 a year should assure his life for £ 800, effecting insurances for fire for £ 300, and accidents for £ 700. The possessor of an income of £ 300 a year should insure his life for £ 500, should effect a fire insurance of £ 200, and an accidental insurance for £ 500 in case of death by accident, or £ 3 a week in case of disablement by accident. These insurances would probably cost:
| Insurance, Medical Attendance, and Savings, | £ 62 | 10s. | |
| Life Assurance for £ 1,000 (of a tolerably healthy person from twenty-five to twenty-eight years of age) | £ 20 to 25 | 0 | 0 |
| Fire Insurance for £ 400 | 0 | 8 | 0 |
| Accidental Insurance of £ 1,000 | 3 | 4 | 0 |
| 28 | 12 | 0 | |
| Insurance, Medical Attendance, and Savings, | £ 40 | ||
| Life Assurance for £ 700 | £ 14 to £ 16 | 0 | 0 |
| Fire Insurance for £ 300 | 0 | 6 | 0 |
| Accidental Insurance for £ 700, about | 2 | 12 | 0 |
| 18 | 18 | 0 |
Thus leaving in the former case an average sum of Ј33, in the latter instances of about Ј21, for medical attendance and savings.
Medical attendance is a very uncertain quantity, nevertheless it may reasonably be expected that it would not mount up to more than
£
5 or £
6 per year, and this would leave a moderate sum to be set aside altogether as a provision for the future Trifling though the amount may be, if once commenced, and if patiently continued, it would grow with increasing rapidity ; for savings are like snowballs, they grow more and more quickly as they roll on. The mere consciousness that an attempt was being made to save would inspirit a man to continue saving, for the people who live lavishly and extravagantly are those who live up to and beyond their income ; the people who are thrifty and economical are those who save out of it. It is by no means the rich who chiefly save ; and on the other hand, there are thousands of households which, out of very little, somehow do manage to put a trifle by for a rainy day.
A word still remains to be said about the sum devoted to the education of the children. It is obvious that during the early years of marriage the amount required would not affect the resources of the family very considerably ; as the children grew older, the education of the children would become one of the most serious items of expense. Does it not follow, therefore, almost as a matter of course that provision should be made in the years of plenty for the future years of famine?
Parents cannot be considered to have done their duty to their children until they have given them a liberal education. Wise men tell us that in the generation now growing up, the children of parents belonging to the middle class will be the worst-educated class of the community. The poor are well and thoroughly taught at the Board Schools ; the rich appreciate the advantages of education, and spare no expense in order that their children may possess them ; the middle class only (excepting in those extraordinary instances where the children can attend high schools and colleges) are being insufficiently taught. Middle-class parents should look to this matter. They may be quite sure that in the days which are coming, when, owing to the increase of population and the spread of education, competition will be keener and the strife for position in life more fierce than ever, those only who are thoroughly abreast with the times will be able to maintain their ground. However different it may have been in former days, culture is imperatively required at the present time. One of the most cruel things a parent can do is to send a child out into the world imperfectly educated.. It is better to cultivate his powers of mind, and to encourage the growth of high principle, than to leave him a fortune ; and he will be more likely to bless his parents' memory for the former gifts than for the latter. It is more than probable that parents will acknowledge the advisability of providing beforehand for the education of the children, yet it is very unlikely that they will act upon the suggestion. In the early days of marriage hope is high, and young housekeepers are inclined to think that time, which will bring the necessity for expenditure, will also bring the means of meeting it. Frequently this expectation is justified ; but it is decidedly more likely to be justified in the case of people who look forward and make arrangements for the future, instead of leaving the matter to chance.
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WITH regard to incidental expenses, it must be remembered that, however
calculating and careful we may be, we can never provide entirely for the
exigencies of life. Experienced persons will tell us that the proportion of
income here allotted to "Incidentals " is not sufficient. It is hoped
that this opinion is a mistaken one ; but for fear it should be correct, the
prudent housekeeper will do well to be exceedingly chary of availing himself of
the sum thus set aside. Not until the three hundred and sixty-five days of his
financial year have entirely run out, will he be justified in laying extravagant
hands upon the sum for Incidentals, of which it is more than probable there will
not be by that time one penny remaining.
We now come to the consideration of Ways and Means which call
for still closer watchfulness and economy, namely, which may be adopted by those
who have £
100, £
150, or £
200 a year. This part of the subject becomes still
more important when we remember that for every individual who has £
300 a year,
there are crowds who have not more than half or a third of the sum ; whilst the
number of persons of education and refinement who endeavour more or less
successfully "to make ends meet" on £
150 a year (the average income
for a clerk) is beyond calculation. Economical habits and methods now become
specially valuable, and the possession of the managing faculty, and of the power
of making the most of things, enables the individual to enjoy life and perform
duty, while the absence of these capabilities converts existence into a mere
struggle with impecuniosity.
Now, if never before, it is necessary that expenditure should
be regulated by system, and that the income should be laid out according to a
pre-arranged plan. And it is believed that, although in country places where
rents are low the proportions given in the former instances might still be
maintained, it would scarcely be possible to adhere to them in London and large
towns where rents and rates are high. It will be remembered that those
proportions were:-
Rent, Rates, Season Tickets, and Incidentals ... ... 3/16
Education 1/16
Living ... 8/16
Clothing... ... ... ... 2/16
Insurance, Doctor's Bills, and Savings .... 2/16
This would give us, with an income of £
200 a year, £
37 10s.
for rent ; with an income of £
150 a year, £
28 2s. 6d. ; and for an income of
£
100 a year, £
18 15s., or about 7s. a week for rent, This, it will be very
generally admitted, is not sufficient, and therefore those proportions must be
left, and the money may be divided as follows :£
Expenditure of Income of £
200 a year.
Rent, Rates and Taxes, and cost of Locomotion for the
head of the family... £
40 0 0
Living .... £
95 0 0
Insurance, Savings, and Doctor's Bills .... £
15 0 0
Clothing ... £
30 0 0
Education ... £
12 0 0
Incidental Expenses £
8 0 0
[total] 200 0 0
Expenditure of Income of £
150.
Rent, Taxes, and Cost of Locomotion ... ... £
35 0 0
Living ... ... £
70 0 0
Insurance, Savings, &c. £
10 0 0
Clothing ... £
25 0 0
Education ... £
5 0 0
Incidentals ... £
5 0 0
[total] £
150 0 0
Expenditure of an Income of £
100.
Rooms (about 7s. 6d. per week) ... £
20 0 0
Housekeeping ... £
52 0 0
Clothing £
15 0 0
Education .. £
3 0 0
Insurance £
5 0 0
Incidentals £
5 0 0
[total] £
100 0 0
[-268-] It may seem at first sight that in these
calculations an unnecessarily high sum has been set aside for rent, yet no one
will thus regard it who has had any experience in the matter, and who has been
compelled at any time to hunt for houses, and thus obtained an idea of the high
rents which are asked in London and other large towns for houses of moderate
size and limited accommodation. In certain districts fairly good houses may be
rented for £
28 per annum, while in other parts the same houses would cost £
35
per annum. When one-third of the sum is added for House Tax, Assessed Taxes,
Water Rate, and cost of locomotion, this would give us £
37 in the first
instance, and nearly £
44 in the second instance. And if we could bring before
us the houses for which these rents were asked, they would not be regarded as
unsuited to the needs of families enjoying the incomes under consideration. In
country places and small towns, on the contrary, a very comfortable dwelling
might be rented for £
18 or £
20. It is probable that in these cases the surplus
would need to be divided between clothing and education.
INCOME AND MANAGEMENT£ IX
In places where rents are high, it is very
doubtful whether it is not wise to hire rooms or to take part of a house instead
of renting a whole one. It is acknowledged that, where it is practicable, it is
much pleasanter to have an entire house for one family, and so escape
interference or remark of any kind ; but even this satisfaction may be purchased
too dear. Excellent unfurnished apartments for a small family, with the use of a
kitchen, may be hired for about 15s. per week, and this would be less than £
40 a
year, nothing further being required for rates. It is not at all likely,
however, that an entire house in a like neighbourhood could be rented for less
than £
50 a year, and then rates and taxes would have to be made an addition to
the sum. Sometimes an arrangement is made by which two families divide a house
between them, and this plan is a very successful one where both parties fulfil
their share of the contract. Judgment must be exercised, however, in deciding
upon the position and character of those who thus share the responsibility of
renting a house, for many an honest man has been brought into difficulties
through trusting the powers and good intentions of others too unreservedly.
In some parts houses are let in flats, each flat being
provided with accommodation for the requirements of a family, and being arranged
so that it can be kept quite separate from the rest of the house. Those who have
lived in fats almost always speak well of them, and it is to be wished that the
plan was in greater favour with builders than it is. There are but few houses
built upon this system in the south of England, though they are usual and
popular with our thrifty neighbours across the Border.
When, following the arrangement here laid down, we come to
deal with the living expenses of the family, we find that we have to manage with
a sum of £
95 from incomes of £
200 a year, £
70 from incomes of £
150, and £
52 from
incomes of £
100 a year. Before, however, we can expend any of this money in the
ordinary daily wants of the family, we must deduct certain sutras to meet the
expenses required for gas, coal, and wages. These may be calculated as follows
:-
From the sum of £
95 allowed for housekeeping expenses in the
case of an income of £
200 a year, there must be deducted
Servant's wages £
10 0 0
Gas £
4 0 0
Coal £
8 0 0
[Total] £
22 0 0
Leaving a balance of £
73, or £
1 8s. per week, for housekeeping.
From the sum of £
70 allowed for living in the case of an income of £
150 per
year, there must be deducted
Gas £
4 0 0
Coal £
8 0 0
[Total] £
12 0 0
Leaving a balance of £
58, or £
1 2s. per week, for housekeeping.
From the sum of £
52 allowed for living in the case of an income of £
100 a year,
there must be deducted £
Gas £
3 0 0
Coal £
6 0 0
[Total] £
9 0 0
Leaving a balance of £
43, or an average sum of 16s. 6d. per week, for living
expenses.
It will be seen from these figures that, although provision has been made for a
servant where the income
amounts to £
200 a year, it is not considered desirable that a servant should be
kept when the income is below that sum. For it must always be remembered that
the expense of a servant has not been told when her wage has been named. A few
years ago it used to be said that amongst well-to-do people a servant cost 10s.
a week apart from her wage. At the present day, when provisions have risen in
price, it is usually found that a servant costs 12s. per week beyond her wage.
Even where economy is exercised and great frugality is observed, and mere
necessaries alone provided, it may be taken for granted that the food and
laundry expenses of a clever young girl will not amount to less than 7s. a week.
And when it is remembered also that the girls who take general situations of
this kind are unfortunately seldom clever, but are too often careless and
ignorant, it will be acknowledged that the cost of keeping such a one is not
covered when the food she eats is paid for. On the contrary, it is to be feared
that, excepting in rare cases, such a girl will waste, break, and spoil far more
than she uses.
It has been proved again and again that the housekeeper who is able and willing
to undertake personally the performance of the domestic duties required by the
household has far more satisfaction and comfort, and is able also to devise
plans for economy more successfully, than she who employs an inefficient,
ignorant girl, even though the latter may receive a very small wage. It is not
every housekeeper, however, who understands the details of household work
sufficiently to do this ; and even where there is the skill, there is not always
the physical strength required for the business. Yet even in these cases it will
generally be found that it is better to engage an honest, clever woman to come
two or three times a week to do the heavier part of the work, rather than to
engage a regular servant. A house divided against itself cannot stand, and it
too frequently happens that while the mistress and house-mother is doing all in
her power to save and spare, the servant is acting in such a way that all her
efforts are rendered fruitless.
The cordial co-operation of the various members of the family will do a great
deal to render domestic work comparatively easy. If every one will take his or
her part not only in doing what is necessary, but in preventing the necessity
for work, things may be managed very comfortably. Even children maybe trained to
practise thought and consideration for others, so that needless labour may be
spared. And if, in addition to this, each individual will do his or her share of
the actual labour required, no one person need be over-burdened or overwrought.
Various labour-saving appliances are also very much on the increase now-a-days,
and the housekeeper who can obtain them will considerably lessen her
difficulties and strengthen her position. Washing machines, wringing machines,
sewing machines, knife-cleaning machines, mincing machines, gas-stoves, &c. &c.,
may be bought at reasonable prices, and help to make household work easy. The
housekeeper who wishes to know what are the latest inventions of this kind
should pay a visit to one of the agricultural shows which are held at stated
intervals in large towns, and she will be rejoiced to find how clever men are
devoting their genius to help her in her difficulties.
Strict watchfulness and economy will be required in regulating the expenses
connected with gas and coal. Here the precautions already recommended with
regard to this part of the subject in cases where a larger income is at the
disposal of the housekeeper should be noted. At the same time it will be found
that there is no surer way of reducing the amount of these items than that very
obvious one of limiting the number of fires which are lighted, and reducing the
number of burners employed. Here also the advantage will be found of dispensing
with [-308-] a servant. Badly-trained domestics will not be economical with coal and gas, and
a little carelessness with regard to these items soon makes itself felt in the
expenditure. When the daily wants of a family consisting of five or six persons
or more have to be provided out of a weekly sum amounting to £
1 8s. or £
1 2s. or
16s. 6d. per week, it is evident that there will not be very much latitude for
extravagance, especially when it is remembered that the necessary personal
expenses of the master of the house have tube deducted from these amounts.
Strict economy will therefore be required if a sufficiency of wholesome food is
to be provided.
INCOME AND MANAGEMENT.£ X.
A KNOWLEDGE of the foods which are inexpensive, and at the
same time wholesome and nourishing, is particularly valuable here, as is also a
knowledge of the best ways of cooking food. Few people now-a-days will make the
mistake of supposing that in providing food we have done enough if we have
procured that which will satisfy for awhile the feeling of hunger. We might do
this and yet might starve a person. We have to provide food which will give the
body just what it requires ; that is, we must supply warmth-giving food,
flesh-forming food, and mineral food to make bone ; and these materials must be
furnished in the right proportions if the individual is to be kept well and
strong.
The substances which are required by the body are
contained in varying proportions in different foods, and a housekeeper displays
good judgment by choosing the kind of food which the members of her family
specially require, according to their age and state of health. Thus grown-up
people need more meat than do children, but it does not follow from this that
children do not need plenty of good food, and they cannot thrive unless they
have it. Of late years an idea has prevailed amongst a certain class that too
much has been said about the necessity of food, and that disease is caused more
by people eating too much than by their having too little. There can scarcely be
a greater mistake. It is true that there are people in the world who eat too
much, and so get liver complaints, gout, and dyspepsia, but they are a very
small part of the community, while hundreds
and thousands have either less food than they need, or the wrong kind of food,
and suffer in consequence.
Milk is the most perfect food that we have. It contains
everything the body requires. When new, it supplies warmth and helps to make
flesh, and is the only safe food for infants. When too rich for a child's
stomach it should be mixed with water. All children ought to drink it daily,
either alone or with other food. Skimmed milk
is cheaper than fresh milk, and very nourishing puddings may be made of it by
mixing about a tea-spoonful of finely-shred suet with every pint of milk.
Porridge made with milk, and bread, make the best supper and breakfast that it
is possible to obtain. Fortunately milk is an inexpensive food. It may usually
be bought for 4d. per quart.
Bread is one of the cheapest of foods. One pound of bread
contains about ten ounces of heat-giving food, two ounces of flesh-forming food,
one-sixth of ashes, and four ounces of water. The most nourishing bread is made
from "seconds" flour.
Peas, lentils, oatmeal, flour, and ground rice are
vegetable flesh-formers ; macaroni and semolina are made from wheat, and
constitute most nourishing food. Lime and phosphorus, which make bone, are found
chiefly in bread and oatmeal. Lentils are the most nutritious of grains. All
these foods are inexpensive. Mrs. Buckton says, "One pound of any one of these
will give a man as much strength as three pounds of lean beef, or three pounds
of veal, or three pounds of ham boiled, or nine bottles of pale ale, or six
bottles of stout." Corn-flour and arrowroot are very poor food, especially for
children, as they make only fat and very little bone and muscle ; sago and
tapioca also are chiefly valuable because they are made with milk.
The body-warmers are oil or fat of all kinds, with the
sugar and starch found in bread and vegetables. Green vegetables contain a large
proportion of water, but they, like fresh fruit, help to purify the blood.
Turnips, carrots, and parsnips, cabbage and cauliflowers, are very nourishing,
but deficient in heat-giving substances. Onions are very wholesome and
nourishing ; they constitute a very valuable article of food, and would be much
more used than they are if it were not for the smell belonging to them. They are
very cheap.
Potatoes are the best of all vegetables ; they contain
heat-giving substances. Meat contains flesh-forming substances ; therefore
potatoes and meat should be eaten together. Lean meat, fish, poultry, game,
eggs, and cheese are animal flesh-formers. Cheese is exceedingly nourishing but
indigestible, excepting for those who work in the open air. Tough stringy meat
may be rendered excellent by long and gentle stewing. The most profitable pieces
of meat that can be bought are taken from the thick flank and round of beef. The
aitchbone of beef, the brisket of beef, and the thin flank are sold at a lower
price than the other joints, but the bone and fat which they contain make them
less valuable than they otherwise would be. A good fresh bone from which the
meat has not been too closely cut is a most profitable investment. Hash can be
made from the meat, soup from the bones, the fat can be rendered and used for
making cakes or pastry. Ox-cheek, ox-heart, sheep's head, sheep's heart and
liver are cheap, and are much favoured by economical people. Their excellence
depends largely upon the mode of cooking. Good well-made soup is wholesome and
nourishing food ; it can be made of both animal and vegetable substances at a
very moderate cost.
Tea is very dear and very poor food, yet it is astonishing
what numbers of people, especially women, drink it constantly. It is stimulating
and refreshing, and this is probably the reason why it is so popular, yet when
made with milk and sugar these substances constitute its chief value.
Where the income is limited, the mistress of the household
must understand cooking if food is to be made the most of. A knowledge of this
useful art will enable her not only to avoid waste, but to prepare and serve
food so as to make it yield the utmost value. Good cookery can convert material
into wholesome nourishing food which would be worse than worthless without it.
The house-mother should therefore take advantage of every opportunity of
acquiring skill in this direction, and she should endeavour not only to prepare
food economically and agreeably, but also to supply variety. Dr. Erasmus Wilson,
the celebrated " skin doctor," says that the diet of children cannot be too much
varied, for change of food to the stomach is what change of air is to the
general health. This he considers so rational a view that he wonders how any one
can hold a different opinion ; yet he declares, I have met with parents who come
to me and boast that their children are fed exclusively on mutton." Such
children could never be really healthy, and every mother ought to remember that
even in workhouses and orphanages, where everything has to be reduced to the
strictest economy, a varying diet during the week has been found to be an
absolute necessity. The human palate craves for some amount of change ; and
where income is limited, and both quantity and quality of food have to be
calculated closely, it is all the more important that the most advantageous use
should be made of the means at disposal. It is astonishing what good use the
French make, by their good cookery, out of poor materials.
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