I should be very sorry were the corrupt fashion of the eighteenth century to
return, in which a woman was considered only half dressed till her natural
complexion was concealed; and hence many a lovely cheek and lip be disguised at
the bidding of those who had no beauty to lose.
At the same time, the face is always exposed, and it does
demand at least as much attention as the rest of the person, and cosmetics have
their use as well as their abuse.
It seems to me an inexpressibly absurd and inconsistent
"crack" of modern middle-class society, that if an honest girl is
known to use a soupcon of colour or tinted powder, she is sneered at and
laughed at by her virtuous female friends, and so she gives in; but let me
remind her that she is also laughed at if she has great feet, or scarcely any
hair, or thick fingers, or any other defect. Crows will always persecute their
weaklier brethren. There are always crows in every company; and if your mistaken
"honesty" forbids you to conceal or improve your bad skin, these
benevolent fowls will none the less set upon you with their stinging beaks and
hoarse screams. Your honesty will only be another feather to wing the shafts of
such enemies; you will not save yourself, but you will succeed in annoying
society. If a woman have the misfortune to lose a conspicuous tooth, it is worse
than folly not to replace it by art, rather than force upon everyone who speaks
to her the extremely unpleasant appearance of her tongue through the gap. If a
girl has the trial of a complexion so bad that the sight of it gives one a turn,
it is simply a duty for her either not to go into society at all, or, if she
does, to conceal it, as she would not scruple to conceal lameness or leanness.
You have no right to inflict your misfortune on everybody - it is an
unpardonable offence against good taste. You can't alter your great feet; but
who will blame you for wearing well- made boots? You can't help losing your
teeth; but who will quarrel with you for wearing false ones?
If an emaciated woman pad her dress, she must not overdo it,
or pad it in the wrong place - that outrages nature more than if she left it
alone. If a woman powder or paint, she must not smear her face carelessly with
unnatural tints, like a clown in a pantomime or last-century ladies. I should
never recommend unguents injurious or dangerous - belladonna dropped in the
eyes, for instance, which, after a time, destroys the sight. There are
transparent cosmetics which leave the pores open whilst they tint the skin, and
will safely bear contact with soap and water. I should strenuously enjoin the
wise use of those which are quite compatible with health and cleanliness. Women
have no right to injure their health in order to enhance their beauty quand même.
A lady who squeezes her waist into ten inches, risks her
life in order to become a disagreeable object; a thousand grim diseases threaten
her, and she ought to be excluded from the company of all aesthetic and sensible
people till she sees her sin against herself and against the next generation.
The same must be said of a girl who wears heels so lofty that she is
half-crippled (the spine as well as the feet being sometimes injured), and whose
features are actually drawn with pain.
But when health is not endangered the outcry might subside.
Critics should discriminate. The girl who plucks her eyebrows hurts no one but
herself, and may reap advantage for the time.
Mrs. H.R.Haweis, The Art of Beauty, 1878