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XVI.
A TOUCH OF NATURE.
THE proverbial kindness of the poor to each other is perforce generally shown
in the shape of personal service, and often takes very characteristic forms, and
is associated with very characteristic incidents. As an illustration of this
phase of the inner life of the poor, I will, with the reader's permission,
record an incident that came under my notice some little time ago.
One hot, glaring summer afternoon I had been called to the
City on business, and while proceeding along a leading thoroughfare noticed,
among those ahead of me, a woman labouring painfully forward under the burden of
a child that even at a distance I could see was no mere infant in arms. From her
whole attitude and manner you could tell that she bore the child right lovingly;
and love must have given her strength, for her task was one that, on such a day,
might well have broken down a strong woman, and she, it was evident at a glance,
was but feeble of frame and health.
To a practised eye it was equally evident that she belonged
to the "poor but honest class. Her garments were of coarse material and
much worn, but they were clean and tidy, and showed, as their more marked token
of poverty, not tatters, but patches. She held on her way slowly but [-224-]
resolutely, taking a brief rest from time to time, as any step or
favourable projection afforded an opportunity for sitting down. The child, a
girl of about seven years of age, was apparently suffering from some affection
of the limbs that rendered the legs, at least, entirely powerless, and hence the
necessity for her being carried. As I came up with them the woman was laying her
burden down on a doorstep to take a moment's rest.
"She seems to be too much for you," I said, by way
of opening a conversation.
"She is, almost," the woman answered, getting the
words out between her laboured breathings, "though that's small blame to
her; there ain't much of her, poor little dear!"
She looked at the child with ineffable love and pity as she
spoke; and it was indeed easy to see that the pretty face and slight frame were
greatly wasted and worn with disease - that it was not the weight of the child,
but her own physical weakness, that made the mother's task so heavy.
"What is the matter with her? " I asked.
"Well, I hardly know, sir, beyond a sort of wasting
weakness. The doctors, the few times I've been able to get them to her, haven't
given her complaint a name. I was in hopes to have heard more to-day. I have had
her up to the hospital for children, but after all my trouble in getting there
and waiting ever so long for it to open, and ever so much longer for my turn to
come, I was told it was not the right day for the doctor that takes her sort of
complaint. The doctor I did see, though, was very kind, and gave me a bottle of
medicine to be [-225-]
going on with till the right day comes round. But whether I shall be able
to get up on that day," she added, lowering her voice as though she were
now rather thinking aloud than directly addressing me, "is more than I can
tell. It'll all depend upon whether 'Larky' can give us a lift again."
"You had a lift up to the hospital, then?" I said.
"Not me," she answered with a faint smile,
"the child. It was only a hand-barrer, you see. One of the men in our
court, 'Larky' Ellis, as they calls him, has a barrer of his own; and a-hearing
as how I wanted to get Lizzie here to the hospital, and didn't know to manage
it, ses he, 'I'll wheel the little gal up for you, free and willin';' and very
kind it was of him to do it. He had to get up I don't know how early in the
morning to be able to do it. Yer see, he's in the greengrocering on his own
account, and has to be at Farringdon Market every morning by five o'clock to buy
stock; and in course he had to get to the hospital a tidy bit before five, so as
to get on to the market in time after."
"You'd have a long while to wait for the opening of the
doors, then," I said.
"Well, yes," she said; "but we didn't mind
that much. The air seems so much better up there than down our way that we could
almost a-feel it a-doing us good. The worst of it was," and here again a
shadowy smile crept over her wan features, "it made us feel so much the
more hungry. We'd eat the bit of bread and butter we had taken with us by eight
o'clock. That is one reason, I expect, why I feel so weak, for I ain't had bite
nor sup since. No, don't let me tell a story," she [-226-]
hastily added, correcting herself; "I shouldn't have
said 'nor sup,' for a little while ago, when I felt as if I really would have
dropped, I took some of this medicine here." And as she spoke she drew from her
pocket a bottle bearing the label of the hospital - as I took care to notice,
though I had really no reason to in the least doubt the truthfulness of her
story.
The medicine here in question was no puffed and patented
nostrum compounded on principles of medicine-taking made easy. It had nothing
of the sugar-coating system about it, but had in full degree the medicinal
quality of nauseousness. The idea of such a medicine being taken at random, as
refreshment, seems at a first glance laughably incongruous, and under most
circumstances would really be a sufficiently good joke; but there was no room
for laughter and jest here; all was sad, stern, earnest - a touch not of the
comedy but the tragedy of life.
"Are you a widow?" I next asked, and in reply to that and
following questions she recounted at some length the story of her life. It was,
unhappily, a common enough story, and may he very briefly reproduced here.
She was a widow. Her husband had been an ordinary unskilled
labourer, and as three children had been born to them, even her married life had
been a continuous struggle with poverty, and the loss of income and sickbed
expenditure consequent upon her husband's death illness had left her a literally
penniless widow. Love for her children restrained her from adopting any calling
that would withdraw her from home all day, and so, as a means of livelihood, she
betook herself to plain needle-[-227-]work -
perhaps the worst paid of all the many ill-paid forms
of female labour.
Under the bitter struggle and hardship - often amounting to
absolute want - that ensued, two of her three children pined away and died. As
often happens in eases of this kind, the child of the family that survived was
the sickliest and feeblest of them all - the one who, it would naturally have
been supposed, would have been taken first. This was the little girl whom I had
seen. Her weakness had always especially endeared her to her mother, and the
loss of the other children had made her doubly dear. The mother's great object
in life was, in her own phrase, to have the child "set up" - to get
her health established. To this end she had attended local dispensaries, both
free and "provident," had consulted local doctors and local quacks, tried
"no end" of old women's remedies, and even resorted to, though but very
faintly believing in, a strongly recommended charm. But all had been of
little or no avail.
At length she heard of the Great Ormond Street Hospital for
Children - heard of it as a place where surprising cures of afflicted little ones
were effected, a place where, if anywhere, her child could be benefited. At a
first thought it would seem that for her to take the child to the hospital would
have been a very simple affair; but, as a matter of fact, the thing faced her as
a very difficult matter indeed. Poverty such as this woman's binds down in many
directions, and binds very hard and last. It circumscribes not merely action,
but thought and habits of self-reliance. For while none are [-228-]
more self-reliant than are the very poor when moving within
their own groove, none are more dazed or helpless when taken out of their
groove.
For years this poor woman had never been more than half a
mile from her own house. All the great city, all the roaring, seething, stony
Babylon beyond that distance was an unknown land to her. She had but a very
vague notion of even the direction in which Great Ormond Street lay, and though
she took it for granted that it was get-at-able by train or bus, she was so
situated just at that time that she could not have mustered even a shilling or
two for travelling expenses. If she could only get the child to the hospital,
she said, she could manage to carry her home, as on the return journey she could
take her time, and rest as often as necessary. How to get there, though,
that was the rub. Those of her neighbours to whom she spoke could and did
sympathise with her heartily, but could do nothing more, being for the most part
as poor as herself. But behold, when to the painfully anxious mother all seemed
hopeless, the friend in need appeared.
There was a neighbour to whom she had not spoken of her
trouble, who she had thought would not care to hear of it, and would be more
likely to treat it with chaff than sympathy. This was the costermonger,
"Larky." To outward seeming, as I gathered, his leading characteristics were
cynicism and slanginess, his chief delights to chaff all and sundry, and haunt
the "harmonic meetings" of neighbouring public-houses. But though,
like many of his "betters" now-a-days, he affected an utter worldliness of
tone, the event [-229-]
proved him to be a true man, one with a heart "tender
for babes and women." In some incidental way he heard of the poor widow's
difficulty, and at once the manhood in him asserted itself. He could give both
sympathy and service, and he immediately proceeded to warmly express the one and
volunteer the other. So far as a "lift" to the hospital was concerned,
he
said the poor little girl should not miss a chance, and he was only sorry he
hadn't known before what was wanted. He had his own hand-"shallow," he
went on
to explain, and each morning went to Farringdon Market to buy stock. By
starting a little earlier any morning he could go on to the hospital, put the
mother and child down there, and then go back to the market. Then bustling
through his round as quickly as he could, he would run up to the hospital again
in the afternoon and bring his friends home.
The mother, not calculating upon the long wait at the
hospital or its weakening effect, would accept but the first part of the
coster's kind offer. She knew that, do his best, she might have to wait some
considerable time after she came out of the hospital before he could get up the
second time to take her home. But though this weighed with her, it was not her
chief reason for deciding to walk back. Gratitude made her thoughtfully
considerate. She was aware that for a costermonger to "bustle through his
round" at undue speed might damage his business, and though he was willing to
serve her to the full, and "never count the cost," she would not consent
that her friend in need should run the risk of suffering injury through his own
good deed. The arrangement ultimately [-230-] agreed upon had been carried out upon the morning of
the day upon which I had come upon the mother and child ; and
how this first visit to the hospital had resulted has been seen.
When she had brought her story down to the point at which I
had met her, there was silence between us for a brief space, and then the
woman, gathering the child closer to her breast, rose to go. The effort making
her weakness painfully apparent, I asked, "Have you far to walk?"
"Somewhere about three miles," she answered.
"Three miles!" I exclaimed in astonishment; "surely
not
so far as that."
"They
tell me that's the distance," she answered; "anyway, sir, it's far enough. and I
must be going."
"Where do you live then, may I ask?" I said, moving on
with her.
She at once mentioned an address at the east end of London
that was indeed fully three miles from the ground we were traversing.
"Why, you will never be able to manage it," I
remonstrated.
"I must manage it, sir," she answered, with a touch of
impatience in her voice; "people as poor as me have to manage a great many
hard things."
This was clearly one of those cases in which there is no room
for hesitancy or inquiry. There was the weak woman, the helpless child, and
three long weary miles of London's stony streets between them and their home.
Fully three miles must she have come already to reach the spot where I found
her. She had not sought my [-231-] notice. I had spoken to her, and unless my pretty extensive
experience among the poor was greatly at fault, she was an honest woman and a
true mother - one who would die in harness for her child's sake. Having heard so
much of her story, I felt that it would be an active cruelty upon my part to let
her struggle on afoot any farther.
"I know that more fully than you are aware," I said,
replying to her last observation; " but this thing seems altogether too
hard; you must let me send you home."
Without waiting for any reply, I hailed a passing cab, in
which I placed her. She sank into the seat with her child across her knee, and
looked the gratitude that for the moment she had not breath to utter. The
long-drawn sigh with which she recovered her breath spoke even more of physical
faintness than of a sense of relief and noting this it occurred to me that she
stood in immediate need of food. Ascertaining from the cabman that there was a
coffee-house close by, I ordered a tea for her there. Then settling with the
cabman, and promising the poor woman to call upon her in the evening, I
went on my way for the time being.
Having transacted my business, I set out east ward, and about
seven o'clock in the evening found myself in the street from which the court
branched that the woman had given me as her address. It was a rough
neighbourhood, with a good many rough-looking customers loafing about it, some of whom eyed me with glances that were of anything but a favouring
character. After some looking about I at length caught sight of the name of the
court I was in search of; and at the same moment [-232-]
became
aware of the presence of a gentleman of the "coster" species who was in a
great measure blocking up the entrance to the place. He was a smart, or, as he
would probably have phrased it, an "Ikey"-looking personage. He was
about thirty years of age, with a good figure, and a not bad set of features,
and he evidently fancied himself in the matter of being "knowing." With his
hands thrust in his pockets, and his fur-trimmed cap jauntily cocked aside, he
was regarding me, as I approached him, with an aggressively defiant air, and on
seeing that he had caught my attention, he began to troll out what, I take it,
was the burden of some music-hall ditty. The words, as well as I can remember,
ran -
"Oh my what a pious lot we are,
And
how very good we all seem to be
But
what a duffing lot you'd find,
Could
you only raise the blind
And
catch us on the strict Q. T."
I looked him hard and straight in time face, trying to take some measure of my man. He met my look unflinchingly, and probably from misinterpreting it, replied to it - if reply it could be called - by another snatch of music-hall song running -
"Did you ever catch a weasel asleep?
Did
you ever with a sprat hook a whale?
Did
you ever, in a word, catch a knowing old bird
With
a little bit of salt upon its tail?"
Notwithstanding his gratuitously offensive manner towards me,
there was a something likeable and kindly in his face, and wishing if possible
rather to make friends [-233-]
than take offence, I stepped up to him, and speaking in the
tone of one who was assured of receiving a civil answer, asked, "Can you tell me at what number in this
court Mrs.----- lives?"
If, instead of this simple question, my words had formed some
potent spell, they could scarcely have produced a more startling effect. In an
instant his swaggering air of knowingness vanished, and he stood there blushing
- actually blushing to the very roots of his hair.
"What!" he exclaimed, beginning to recover himself,
"are you the gen'lem' as sent her home in a cab encettera?"
I nodded assent, and he went on, "Of course, I ought to
have guessed that the minute I see you spotting the court; how-sum-never, I
didn't, and so I humbly beg yer pardon, sir."
"For what?" I asked, keeping to myself the idea that now
flashed upon me, to the effect that I ought to have as readily recognised Mr.
"Larky" Ellis in the personage now before me.
"Why, for trying to bounce yer with imperent looks, and
slanging yer with flash songs," was the answer. "I'd a sooner cut my tongue
out than a done it if I'd know'd it had been you. I know you'll tell me it was
wrong to have done it towards anybody, and I dare say it was. All the same
though, we often get pretty hard rubbed the wrong way of the fur by people as
ain't up to their work, and don't know how to handle us, though they may mean
well. But when I finds a man as'll put his hand to the barrer if he finds yer
stuck in the mud, [-234-] as
you did with Mrs.--------- to-day, I knows he is one of the right sort, and to be treated
accordin', and so I begs yer pardon again, sir, and hope you'll forgive me."
Personally
I had nothing to forgive, I answered, as I had really taken no offence at his
proceedings. Still, I went on, I hoped he would let this little incident teach
him to be more just in judging those who sought out the poor with the object of
spreading spiritual knowledge and consolation among them, and who, though they
might not have the means of relieving material wants, might yet, by some
divinely directed word in season, show a way to everlasting treasures.
He
listened respectfully, but simply bowed his head in reply, and, seeing that I
had improved the occasion as far as - for the time being, at any rate - it was wise
to do so, I fell back on my original position, and asked him to tell me the
number of the house in which Mrs. --------- lived.
"Oh,
they don't run to numbers here," he answered; "but I'll show you, and so saying
he led the way up the court, and having pointed to a particular door, left
me."
I
found Mrs. -------- at home, and looking somewhat better than she had done in
the
afternoon, though even now you could see that she was terribly hunger and labour
worn. She was fervently grateful for the little service I had been able to
render her, and, from all that I saw and heard, I was satisfied that such
service had been well bestowed - that her pitiful story was but "ower
true."
The simple incident I have here recorded may on the
face of it seem trifling, but, reader, thoughtfully con-[-235-]sidered there is much matter
in such an episode, much
"food for reflection." Think of it, read between its lines, try to realise
in thought how much it means, how much it indicates of the sorrow and
suffering incidental to the lot of the poor, and of the God-given love and
patience and trustfulness that enable them to bear their lot with the
resignation as to the present, and hopefulness as to the hereafter, with which
they do bear it. How much it indicates also of that neighbourly help, which is
one of the sweetest drops in the cup of life of the poor - help which, as in
this case, often comes unasked from unexpected and unlikely quarters, and
affords some of the finest of those touches of nature that make the whole
world kin.